Enneagram

 

 

 

Tapestry Life Resources offers group and individual work in the Enneagram, which is a widely adaptable tool for personal growth and self-realization. Understanding your core Enneagram personality type can help you become a more open, compassionate person and will help you improve all your relationships. You will begin to access your True Self. In organizations, it  improves team functioning and matches people to the tasks they do best.

What Is the Enneagram?

The Enneagram is a centuries-old and increasingly popular tool for understanding human nature. Focusing on our unconscious motivations and compulsions, it lets us catch ourselves when we are responding to life with defense mechanisms and reactions rather than with the authenticity that is inherent in our True Selves. The Enneagram brings to light our "doing" and instead encourages us to strive toward "being" as we were created.

The Enneagram helps us make healing connections among our three centers -- the instinctual center (body), the feeling center (heart), and the thinking center (mind) -- by identifying our gifts and our brokenness. It is useful for individual inner work and for improving group dynamics and relationships.

Workshops & Services

Suzanne can schedule an Enneagram workshop for your group based on the group's needs and previous knowledge of the Enneagram model. Some topics for workshops are:

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Introduction to the Enneagram

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Using the Enneagram in Team-Building

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The Enneagram and the Spiritual Journey

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Instinctual Subtypes and the Enneagram

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Improving Relationships and the Enneagram

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Study Groups

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A Workshop Tailor-made for Your Special Needs

Suzanne is also available to work with you on an individual basis in understanding your type and its influence in your personal life, in your professional life, and in your spiritual journey. For more information, click here to go to the Mentoring page.

Contact Suzanne at suzyelle@charter.net or by calling Tapestry Life Resources 828-324-8620

The Nine Enneagram Types (Riso-Hudson Nomenclature)

 

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Type 1: The Reformer

The Reformer has a basic desire to be a "good" person and may put pressure on himself/herself to be perfect. This drive to improve both self and others masks the Reformer's inner fear that somehow he/she is not good enough, defective, or even evil. Though at their worst, Reformers will be intolerant and hypocritical, at their best, they are self-disciplined, wise, and realistic, and  they have a strong sense of ethics and values that can inspire other. 

To read more about the Reformer, click here.

 

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Type 2: The Helper

The Helper has a basic desire to feel loved be others that masks a basic fear that he/she cannot be truly loved because of an innate unworthiness. Thus, the Helper seeks to win love by what he/she does for others. At their worst, this causes Helpers to be patronizing, intrusive, and manipulative. At their best, however, Helpers are truly unselfish and altruistic. This is because they come to love both themselves and others.

To read more about the Helper, click here.

 
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Type 3: The Achiever

The Achiever has a basic desire to feel valuable and worthwhile in an effort to calm the basic fear of being worthless. Anxious to measure up the standards of others, Achievers at their worst will do whatever it takes to get recognition and approval even if it means being opportunistic or dishonest. Paradoxically, at their best, Achievers are both intrinsically motivated and truly authentic. Their competence makes them highly valued by others.

To read more about the Achiever, click here.

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Type 4: The Individualist

The Individualist has a basic desire to find himself or herself and create an identity. This desire is an effort to ease the basic fear of having no personal significance and no real identity. Because they focus on emotions and use thinking to maintain their moods and feelings, Individualists at their worst can get trapped in an emotional quagmire and fall into depression and blaming behaviors. However, at their best, Individualists can transform their sensitivity into universal expressions of the human condition through creative endeavors. They can be empathetic and vulnerable while also being emotionally strong and self-renewing.

To read more about the Individualist, click here.

 
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Type 5: The Investigator

The Investigator covers up his/her basic fear of being useless, incapable, or helpless by cultivating his/her basic desire to be highly competent and knowledgeable. Investigators often postpone taking action until they feel they have all the facts. At their worst, they retreat from others and get lost in the unrealistic ideas generated by their own minds, becoming obsessive and/or eccentric. At their best, however, Investigators are visionaries, who can see things in their true context and, at the same time, make accurate predictions and create innovative solutions.

To read more about the Investigator, click here.

 
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Type 6: The Loyalist

The Loyalist has a basic fear of being without support or guidance, and so the basic desire is centered around finding a reliable source of support and guidance.  Thus, the key word for the Loyalist is security, and of all the types, Loyalists can behave in the most contradictory ways. At their worst, Loyalists are afraid they have ruined their security and may feel distrustful and even paranoid. However, at their best, Loyalists are trusting and both independent and interdependent, seeing themselves and others as partners or equals. 

To read more about the Loyalist, click here.

 
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Type 7: The Enthusiast

The Enthusiast is the true "party-animal" of the Enneagram. The eager response to variety of the Enthusiast is a disguise for the basic fear of being in pain or being deprived. The basic fear leads to the basic desire to be satisfied and content and to have all needs fulfilled. Consequently, at their worst, Enthusiasts can lead a desperate quest to quiet their anxieties and can become impulsive and compulsive, even obnoxious and addictive because they are never able to find the contentment they crave. At their best, though, Enthusiasts are truly joyous and deeply grateful for the simple (and the enormous) gifts life offers them. 

To read more about the Enthusiast, click here

 
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Type 8: The Challenger

The Challenger is self-confident and decisive. They key word for the Challenger is power. Challengers' basic desire is to protect themselves because they have a basic fear of being harmed or controlled by others. Thus, at their worst, Challengers will reject authority and become ruthless, dictatorial, and even violent. At their best, however, Challengers are courageous and resourceful and can be the most empowering of others of all the types. They have huge hearts and realize the power to be found in surrendering to a higher power.

To read more about the Challenger, click here.

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Type 9: The Peacemaker

The Peacemaker is accommodating and agreeable. This is because the Peacemaker's basic desire is to have inner stability and peace of mind.  Behind this cooperative demeanor, the Peacemaker has a basic fear of loss and separation, and so the Peacemaker may go along with others when in fact, she/he would prefer something else. Consequently, at their worst, Peacemakers can be highly repressed and numbed out to the point that abandon themselves and others just to avoid conflict. At their best, though, Peacemakers are truly "nice" people. They are present and connected to themselves and to others and are able to form deep, supportive relationships. 

To read more about the Peacemaker, click here.

Favorite Enneagram Links

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The Enneagram Institute

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The Enneagram Monthly

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International Enneagram Association

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The Changeworks

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The Electric Enneagram

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The Enneagram Spectrum of Personality Types

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The Authentic Enneagram

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The Enneagram in the Healing Tradition

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Fergus Duniho's Enneagram Pages

For more information, please email info@tapestryliferesources.com 

or call 828-315-9900

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